Sometimes a random baby smiling at you in the elevator is the best thing that happens in that day, and you shouldnt discredit that happy feeling just because you didnt climb Everest that day. The happiness might be as short lived as heartbeat’s worth of time, but you still have to be grateful for it, still have to count is as something, still have to value it as something. You have to be grateful when the scale hasnt moved even though you finished up an entire tub of butter the night before, even though you didnt get caught stiffling that sob and passing it on as another episode of runny nose due to bad weather, you have to count those blessings. Even though you threw up in the middle of the night, the fact that noone heard you- you should be grateful for that. Even though its been hell of a year, the fact that Allah somehow sustains you amidst all these excruciatingly monstrous pains, you should be grateful. You must be grateful, you need to be grateful.
Not being grateful isnt an option because you have to get out of this mess and this is the only way I know how to. Cant feel it? Then fake it, but still do. Inspite of the overwhelming evidence to the contrary, please do.
With the stress from doing everything because the best days of the year are here, remember that Allah is Al Shakur- The Appreciative One. He appreciates the infinitesimal good that you do.
The prophet Muhammad, may peace be upon him, before his demise, advised us to always have the best expectations of Allah. So expect Allah to reward you for whatever, however much you can do, especially when His favorite days are here. In fact having this grand opinion of Allah, The Sublime One, itself is an act of worship it and of itself. SubhanAllah.
Dont get overwhelmed.
Remember what the prophet said: Actions are but by intentions. If you intended to do your best, thats all that matters, inshaAllah.
Sometimes its just a thought
Sometimes its a feeling
But sometimes, you just know it. Its unexplainable, but you just do. There isnt any other way to say it. Hold onto those.
The Light of Allah is unlike any other light, neither of the East or the West (ref Surah Nur), and so is this feeling. Lights are there to remove darkness of confusions and doubts, to bring in clarity, direction and brightness.So dont try to disturb the magic with worldly shackles of practicality, reality, possibility or logic.
Wheather you are Sleepless in Seattle, or living At The Lakehouse, taking A Walk In The Clouds or waiting for Sweet November, just for tonight, i need you to forget every Definitely, Maybe, and just Remember This:
Serendipity Happens, A Lot Like Love…
Everyone talks about having faith, belief, hope,but nobody teaches how to. You see thats the problem.Most of us are average Jane/John Doe’s, we don’t do wise words or preachings. We are not great and we don’t do greats. We just need something easy, like a pill which we can simply gobble down and get back to life.
And what I am talking about, is anything but that.
Human beings need a lot of things to FEEL alive- love, joy, laughter. But to BE alive, we only need one thing- a live, beating heart. And by any chance if you have allowed anyone to walk with yours inside of them (children, parents, siblings,spouse, even career), then may The Lord have mercy on you! Very few people can do that, and still FEEL alive.
Say,” Allah is The One
Allah is The One To Go to (with all your problems and intentions)
He begets not, nor is He begotten
And there is no One like Him”.
We read the above Surah all the time. We all understand what it means. But what strikes me is the third verse- Allah does not give birth nor He is born of anyone. Basically it reflects that Allah has no mortal quality. That means, Allah is the One to go to with all the duas- wishes, needs and wants, because unlike human beings, He does not judge us, He does not talk about what is possible and what not, His “mood” to give doesnt flactuate based on our atittudes. He wont tell you what you are asking for is silly, He wont make you uncomfortable (because people most definitely will), He wont make fun of you or most importantly, He wont belite your concerns just because something else is more important.Your silly dua will still be in priority line, because Allah’s generosity is not “either/or”. It is “and”.
Next time you recite these verses, remember this. Allah is NOT going to treat you like human beings. So you can tell Him your deepest secrets, especially when your head is on the ground (thats when you soul rises to Allah and you are closest to Him). Your whispers will be securedly absorbed on the prayer mat before they rip through the sky and reach your Lord. Not only will He fulfil them by His generosity, He will also never reveal your secrets to anyone.
Because He begets not, nor is He begotten.
And there is No One like Him.
Its not always about being particularly good or worthy. To live extraordinary experiences, encounter moments which are literally “out of the world”, you dont always need to be particularly saintly. To have that dream of the prophet (peace be upon him), to have the angels come to your aid when you need, to have a Divine revelation be dropped in your heart like Prophet Musa’ s mother, or the little Prophet Yusuf (long before he became a prophet), to have a miraculous overnight cure of an ailment you have been battling- you do NOT need to be the righteous of the righteous. With or without hijab or beard, with or without the best of faith, with or without the best of past records, with or without the maximum number of voluntary prayers or fasts, with or without the best of associations, with or without the best of gratitudes, basically with or without anything good whatsoever, you still qualify for blessings that perhaps are not from this world.You still qualify for the Divine mercy of Allah which if translated in English basically means “Unimaginable Love, Mercy and Compassion”- yes, beyond imagination.
I have seen it happen around me. To everyday people like you and me. Trust me a lot of the ones who “look not too religious” are sometimes the ones with the most treasurous experiences, if that word even exists.
You and I could be part of it all too.
If you could pick ONE deed you will do regularly this Ramadan (instead of overwhelming yourself with a plate full and then giving up midway), what would that be?
Mine is DUA. Because the prophet (peace be upon him) said dua is the essence of worship. So no matter what you do, if the underlying intention is not tied to acceptance of dua, its basically losing the prime factor. So if faced with a choice, pick dua. After all your duas especially the last ten nights will determine the chain of events in the next one year. So if possible, make a list so you dont forget.
Dont forget, the most honorable thing to Allah is dua. He loves that you ask and gets upset if you dont. So dua away like nobody’s business.
And believe that He will give like nobody’s business. Because it really isnt. He promises to give whoever He wills without limits.